Category Archives: Davisville Events

Davisville Fundraising Pub Night on Friday!

Calling all Davisville parents: we invite you to join us this Friday, May 31, at The Bull and Firkin, 1835 Yonge Street (just south of Davisville Ave.) from 8pm onwards, for a super-fun fundraising pub night!  A donation of $20 is suggested – but pay what you can, every bit helps.

The proceeds from the pub night will be used to revamp the area outside the school office with some new shrubs and ground cover to create a nicer garden that the students and whole community can enjoy.

We will be dedicating this new garden to Alexandra Buswell-Martinez, a former Davisville student and daughter of Heather Martinez (part of our Davisville/ MTSD teaching staff) who tragically passed away at the beginning of this school year.

If you can’t attend, but would still like to contribute money towards flowers, shrubs or the memorial marker, please send your donation in an envelope marked “School Planter” to the school with your child. You may also leave a donation with Norah in the office.

Fun Fair Committee Meeting April 29th

Our annual fun fair is fast approaching! Mark your calendars for Saturday, June 15th. We are going to have more fun activities for the kids than ever, which means we need more volunteers than ever! We need as many parents as possible to commit to taking an hour shift or more. If you can volunteer on that day, please email our volunteer co-ordinator Anne Sasu at anne.sasu@sympatico.ca

Our next Fun Fair Committee meeting is on Monday, April 29th at 6:45 p.m. in the staff room, first floor. There’s still lots of planning to do, and we need your help! We are currently seeking someone to provide volunteer babysitting for this meeting. If you have an older child (grade 7 & up) who is interested in volunteering for this and/or other meetings, or you yourself could spare an hour or so, please email anne.sasu@sympatico.ca or sherrygiles@gmail.com

If you have any questions about the fun fair, please feel free to email our fun fair committee chair Sherry Giles at sherrygiles@gmail.com

Free Workshop on April 4: Shifting Negative Behaviours (Part 2)

Please register at http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/dps_workshop

Cindy Smolkin will be back for a follow-up to our November workshop. Learn how to better connect with your child in this empowering workshop which will guide us through techniques to help set limits, shift negative behaviours and avoid ugly power struggles. Over time, by applying the tools of this workshop, you can assist your children to organize and control their emotions – leading to more confident and emotionally resilient individuals. This workshop is open to parents / caregivers at Davisville PS (even if you weren’t at part one in November).

This workshop is being funded through a Ministry of Education grant we received (Parents Reaching Out Grant). We will also be receiving a subsidy from the TDSB that gives us $3 for every parent / caregiver who attends. We are happy to have this support!

Please register by completing the online form (it will take no more than 2 minutes!). There will be free babysitting and light refreshments.

Cindy Smolkin, M.S.W, R.S.W., associate with Connected Parenting is a therapist who has been helping children, teens and families for 18 years.

Parent / Caregiver Workshop with Cindy Smolkin- A Summary, A Forum for Sharing Resources & Many Thanks

“Do any of you happen to have children who have the odd meltdown?” Cindy Smolkin asked the audience of 50 parents who attended her parenting workshop on November 21. It was one of many questions to be answered with 50 vigorously nodding heads. Smolkin, a social worker and therapist, is an advocate of Connected Parenting, an approach to parenting whose methods she explained in her concise and entertaining workshop. Cindy provided strategies and suggestions for parents dealing with children that don’t always do precisely as they’re told. She was refreshingly non-judgmental in her approach, encouraging parents to use those tools that resonated with them and leave the rest behind. The key seems to be empathy, understanding where our children are coming from and accepting that these emotional creatures can’t always be expected to transition smoothly to the rational plane that adults (try to) operate on. The hour and a half workshop flew by and we are lucky to be having a second installment in March 2013. Details to follow. – Naomi Buck, JK parent

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Last night I attended the parenting workshop given by Cindy Smolkin. Cindy proved to be an excellent presenter and judging by the number of nodding heads her information resonated with many of us in the audience. Parenting is more challenging than ever these days with issues such as anxiety, self esteem and bullying impacting our children. Having insight from a professional and hearing the experiences of other parents was both heartening and empowering. It left me wanting more.

While there is going to be another workshop I thought it would be great to find a way for parents in the Davisville community to connect in the meantime to share resources (for example I have found the book Have You Filled a Bucket Today? By Carol McCloud to be great), tips or just connect as parents as we all work so hard to raise our children well. Since no one raises their children in isolation but rather as part of a community it would be nice to further develop the parenting community at Davisville. – A JK & SK Parent

Please add a comment to this post in response and/or share resources to continue the discussion online. 

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Thank you to the 50+ parents and caregivers who attended the workshop and contributed honestly and enthusiastically to the discussion. Thanks also to the 25 among them who responded to the “call for helpers” and volunteered in some capacity to make the evening run smoothly and assisting with follow up items. Thank you to the 30 attendees who provided immediate feedback through an online survey which will assist in the design of future workshops! An engaged group of people!

More words of thanks go to Cindy Smolkin, our informative and approachable expert, Shona, Norah & Terri (Spectrum office) for their support in the preparations, and caretaking team Jason, Nermina and Darryl for all the logistical help. Merci to Madame Potter for letting us use her class for babysitting; the children truly appreciated access to all the classroom supplies.

Thank you also to the Ministry of Education for approving our application for the Parents Reaching Out grant. Thanks also to the TDSB’s Continuing Education department for giving us additional funding. We are grateful for this support.

Please note that there will be a second workshop with Cindy in March 2013 (exact date to be confirmed – stay tuned!). Everyone is welcome (even if you did not attend the first workshop). Keep it in mind! We would love to see you there.

Free Parent / Caregiver Workshop: November 21st, 7 – 8:30pm – Register

Thank you to those who completed the survey to help prepare for the upcoming workshop – there has been a great response! Wednesday November 21st was the date that worked best for the largest amount of parents and caregivers. Please register by completing the online form (it will take no more than 2 minutes) http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/LWV52MK

Learn how to better connect with your child in this empowering workshop. Therapist Cindy Smolkin will lead us through a series of proven techniques enabling parents to use mirroring and empathy to better attune to their child’s feelings. Learn how these techniques can help you to set limits, shift negative behaviours and avoid ugly power struggles. Over time, by applying the tools of this workshop, you can assist children and teenagers to organize and control their emotions – leading to more confident and emotionally resilient individuals.

Cindy Smolkin, M.S.W, R.S.W., associate with Connected Parenting (http://www.connectedparenting.com) is a therapist who has been helping children, teens and families for 18 years.

This workshop is being funded through a Ministry of Education grant we received (Parents Reaching Out Grant). We will also be receiving a subsidy from the TDSB that gives us $3 for every parent / guardian who attends.  We are happy to have this support!